Welcome to Just Breakup, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who has a crush on their close friend.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. Correct. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this.

We are just two people with two functioning microphones this week. So please take our advice.

Thank you. Please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings.

So hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding,

but mostly confusing experience that is love.

So please take our advice as you see fit in your life.

There it is.

All right.

It is Monday.

So before we dive into today's episode, we are going to do a quick check-in topic.

Today's check-in topic is inspired by something that I randomly found on Instagram and saved a couple weeks back.

I know, again, per usual, I know nothing about this person's account.

It seems like they interview people. I don't know. The account is

Preston Rack. And this is interviewing someone and I'll say their name at the very end. I think

Spence Willow is their Instagram. And it's a conversation about love. And here it is spence says consideration is the highest form of

love and she goes on to explain that when i was 10 my mom gave my sister and me $20 to spend at

a thrift store i went in and bought discount boxing gloves but my sister and me $20 to spend at a thrift store. I went in and bought discount boxing gloves,

but my sister decided to go ahead and get a fucking raggedy furby that would screech infurbish.

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