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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 254: The Emotional Block-Block-Block

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Our feelings are 100% valid but also 100% our responsibility. Other people aren’t hurting us just because we’re hurt (even if they did break “girl code,” like a friend dating our ex). Instead of trying to control the narrative, how can you decenter yourself in your understanding of their relationship, accept the inevitability of nuance, and self-soothe on your time? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:59.4

Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

1:06.4

advice you don't want to hear.

1:08.1

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

1:10.3

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is feeling betrayed by a close friend.

1:17.0

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

1:24.4

Right, we are not professionals, we are not trained in this, so please take our advice

1:29.4

as you see fit. We are only here to offer our humble musings so we've had some understanding and maybe

1:36.0

some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

1:42.6

All right, Sam, you have a check-in topic for us this week.

1:46.4

I do, I do.

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