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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is walking on egg shells around their partner.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Correct. We are not trained in this. We are not professionals. So please take our advice as you see fit.

We are only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe

some laughs on the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right, let's dive into today's letter.

Let's do it.

So this letter comes from Feeling Not Enough in Kentucky.

Whose pronounce are she, her her and who is writing from Kentucky.

I 28 trans female she her have been dating my partner 26 cis female she her for

around six months now in a monogamous long-distance relationship.

My partner identifies as fat, and although she is proud of that fact, and I love that she's body

positive, she often tells me that she feels that I'm not attracted to her.

She has seen my friendships and dating history of people I surround myself with and states that I have

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