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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 253: Good News! You Get to Make Better Choices

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2023

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

It’s okay that people hold versions of you in their mind that you don’t agree with. It’s also inevitable. Reaching out to an ex to explain what “really” happened doesn’t usually help anyone, and might even hurt them. If you know your truth, does it matter that others don’t? Can you release the need for validation and let them process the relationship for themselves? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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freshest streaming service. Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

1:06.7

advice you don't want to hear.

1:08.3

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

1:10.2

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is wanting to correct their ex's version of them.

1:17.0

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

1:24.8

Right, we are not professionals, we are not trained in relationship advice whatsoever.

1:30.1

So please take our advice as you see fit. We are only here to offer our humble museums

1:35.0

so hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs on the incredibly

1:39.0

rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

1:45.1

All right, everyone.

1:45.8

We're gonna get into our letter,

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