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When we talk about how God made sex to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and how, if women don't want sex, the answer is to figure out why, we invariably get people saying, "so you think women don't have to have sex then?"
Today on the podcast we look at the 90% problem vs. the 10% problem. In 90% of cases where women don't want sex, there's a reason. Let's focus mostly on the 90%! But guess what? We actually talk about the 10% too!
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0:00.0 | Welcome to episode 231 to the Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregoer from Bear Marriage |
0:13.4 | where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your |
0:16.6 | sex life and your marriage and I am joined today by my daughter Rebecca |
0:19.8 | Lindenbach. Hello and Becca guess what we're going to do today? What are we going to do? |
0:25.3 | We are going to dedicate an entire podcast to a comment that I often get that I'm a little bit |
0:31.5 | sick of. Yes. And I just want one place where we demolish the argument |
0:36.6 | so that I can send people here and say, |
0:38.6 | hey, if you think that, go listen here. |
0:41.2 | So we've done this before. Your father and I did a podcast a while ago on obligation sex so everything you want to know about obligation sex. We did a podcast on why if you are acting egalitarian you should just call yourself egalitarian, not |
0:53.7 | complimentarian, so we demolished all those arguments. And today we want to look at |
0:57.7 | the accusation that we often get, which I think is so silly, that we're telling women |
1:01.4 | you don't ever need to have sex. Exactly. Yes, so we're telling women you don't ever need to have sex. |
1:03.0 | Exactly. |
1:04.0 | Yes, so we're good, but before we do that, |
1:06.0 | we have a few thank you. |
1:07.0 | Do you want to start? |
1:08.0 | Our first one we want to say thank you too |
1:10.0 | like we do every week, I think most weeks pretty much anyway is our patrons |
1:14.9 | thank you so much to everyone who helps support what we do here our patrons give |
1:18.8 | a little bit of money every month as low as five dollars a month sometimes and |
1:22.1 | you get access to our exclusive Facebook group where |
1:26.2 | it is the only place on social media I actually hang out. |
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