And I went downstairs and my dad was there and I said,

I know I'm supposed to submit and I know I'm supposed to have sex when he needs it so that he's not tempted and I've never said no to him in 17 years that I swear I've never said no even when it's three times a day dad I've never said no and I always act like I'm enjoying it that I've done everything you and

and I'm sick and last night I passed out and I'm scared.

I don't know what to do. I've everything right I've done everything you told me and he looked at me and he said

You know some women go through men minute pause early.

And I just remember thinking,

I can't live this lie. Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast, I'm Sheila Ray Greg War from To Love Honor and Vacuum dotcom where we like to talk about healthy evidence

based biblical advice for your sex life and your marriage and I'm joined by my

daughter Rebecca Lindenbach as we are getting ready to listen to part two of

alyssa Wakefield story yes and it's good yeah so last week alyssa Wakefield

who grew up in a gothored homeschooling fundamentalist family was sharing her story leading up to the courtship and betrothal which was arranged by her father, her husband's father, and her husband without

Alyssa's permission and she was just sort of informed this is the one that

God has for you and that led to a very disastrous marriage which Alyssa is now free of and

we're going to hear more about that today.

You know we really are about healthy and evidence based.

And the problem is that in far too many segments of Christianity, it hasn't been healthy, nor evidence-based.

No, it's been purposely ignoring the evidence so they can keep pushing their agenda.

Yeah, and it's been about power and control and that's had disaster. the evidence so they can keep pushing their agenda.

Yeah, and it's been about power and control and that's had disastrous effects.

So I hope you listen to part one.

If you haven't, it might be a good idea to turn this podcast off,

download, download part one, and listen to Alyssa. and now we're going to pick up from

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