Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Men, stop grabbing your girlfriend's head as she's giving you head and forcing her to deep throat you because this is what you've seen in pornography and you believe

that women like it when you do that. It is not true, they don't like it, and if they they do they're pretending for you trying to support

you and your distorted fantasies from watching way too much porn. Okay yes I am

starting with that sentence because I believe that when it comes to sex and

intimacy, there should be a conversation and I think that especially today,

listen I grew up in the 80s where to get a pornographic image

you had to know someone who was much older than you who had access to some cash so they could

buy something at the liquor store or who had access to VHS videos that were in the section where there's a curtain

and you have to go behind the curtain and it's a lot of lonely men looking at pornography videos.

And so they were hard to get, right?

So I remember when I was like 12,

and there's a lot of stuff that I've seen at an age where I shouldn't have been looking at that stuff.

Mostly because I had older friends who had access to things and then I also had parents who worked all the time so that

meant I was free to go into my mom's bedroom or my dad's bedroom and watch

Playboy and at the time there was something called on TV and select TV and all these like

adult or like Skinnerax kind of things and of course I was curious and shocked and I remember just watching these

images with my jaw dropped and being so curious on what this all this was all

about right? These naked people doing crazy things. But today you could grab a pornographic

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