Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Have you ever woke up one day and you look in the mirror and you're like holy shit?

I've just aged seven years.

That has been happening to me recently and I don't like it.

I don't know being Asian I've always the thing about Asian people is you can't tell if they're like 12 or 65 and I've always looked 12 and nowadays I look in the mirror and I feel like I look 65

like I can feel the I know gravity exists because that's what science says but I could actually feel

gravity on my face because my face is drooping for the first time in my life my face is drooping and this

is some bullshit because if it was gradual it wouldn't be that big of a deal but you know when you look

12 for most of your life and then you wake up and suddenly you have a jrupy face

it's a little traumatic. Anyway, yes, that is my opening.

Now let's talk about how to build a relationship armor.

How to bulletproof your relationship. Okay, so I'm just going to get to it because

there's so many ways. It's funny I say I'm just going to get to it and yet I just wasted three minutes talking about my droopy face

Whatever let me be me. Okay, I really believe that we can build armor in relationships and of course it takes effort and I

say build because I think our relationships are built just starting from that

sentence I think many people don't know, especially if you're younger,

that relationships are built, right? They're like your house.

They are built, they're not things that just happen magically yes there's

chemistry that's magical and yes there are other things right moments that are

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