Ep. 55: Are You Ignoring Me?
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 28 October 2016
⏱️ 53 minutes
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In this episode, Natalie talks about the things that we need to consider if we're going to sext with a stranger, plus she talks about the importance of distinguishing between the experiencing and remembering self, and what to do when someone ignores you and then makes out that it's you who's ignoring them. This week's listener question is about whether her boyfriend living with another woman and raising a family with her is normal and whether her discomfort is "stupid", and Natalie shares what she's learned this week.
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to episode 55 of the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:05.0 | I'm your host Natalie Lou, author of baggage reclaim.com, |
| 0:09.0 | where I help people to offload the shady relationships and emotional baggage that block healthy self-esteem and loving relationships. |
| 0:17.0 | This week I talk about the difference between the experiencing self and the remembering self. |
| 0:22.0 | Plus, I share some tips on what to do when somebody is ignoring you |
| 0:27.0 | and then says that you're the one that's ignoring them. |
| 0:32.0 | Well, hello there and happy Halloween in advance for Monday. It's good to be back after a couple of weeks break. |
| 0:39.6 | So, last week I featured a story on the baggage reclaim blog and it's for advice Wednesday and it was |
| 0:49.7 | about Effie and she had been texting and emailing this guy for about six months and well it |
| 0:59.6 | had graduated to a lot of sexual communication so yes it was sexting and she had essentially assumed that they were in a relationship or they were going to be in a relationship. |
| 1:12.8 | And then when she did sort of come out straight |
| 1:16.0 | and say, you know, look, what's the situation between us? |
| 1:18.3 | He was like, you know, this is basically not what I have in mind. |
| 1:22.1 | He, you know, he's already involved with somebody else as well |
| 1:25.1 | I wanted to talk about this topic a bit more because this is ever so common. I get a lot of emails every week from people who sexed with |
| 1:42.0 | basically strangers and sometimes it is just for a brief time like with people that they've met on I don't know plenty of fish or tender or wherever and then sometimes it goes on for weeks or months at a time with somebody and they build up feelings for this person and actually believes that there is something going on between them. |
| 1:59.0 | What we have to realize when we do this type of thing with somebody who we don't really know or that we certainly are not in a relationship with is that we are essentially at stage zero with that person. Now what I call stage zero is if you are |
| 2:16.8 | engaging with somebody who you have been introduced to via an app or website or you have say for instance met that |
| 2:27.2 | person I don't know somewhere out and about once and then you've had no exchange |
| 2:31.8 | numbers and then you basically continue |
| 2:33.8 | communicating but haven't met up you've at stage zero like you haven't even |
| 2:38.2 | progressed into dating and some would argue oh you is, you know, the equivalent to being |
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