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Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

EP 507: The Trap of the Unavailable Partner

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson

Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

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Inside of today’s episode: 

  • Wedding dress shopping updates! (Grief can coexist with joy during significant life events.)
  • WHY unavailable relationships are so enticing (and so challenging to leave)
  • We may unconsciously choose unavailable partners due to fear of intimacy. 

Aaaaaand so much more! 


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, psychologist, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, author of Love Magnet and Athletic Wear Connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life.

0:22.3

Each week, two episodes will air featuring expert advice, live coaching, and tips, showing you

0:28.4

exactly how to improve your life and attract a healthy relationship. You deserve to feel empowered,

0:34.8

secure, and love. Buckle up and Let's Get Vulnerable. Welcome to the Let's Get

0:43.6

Vulnerable podcast. It's your host, Dr. Morgan. If you're watching this on YouTube,

0:48.4

you can see we have a whole new podcast studio setup. I am in my new house. And I know for some of you, you're going to say,

0:59.0

what? I thought you had just moved to Montana and you built your dream house. And yes, this is true.

1:06.7

And I've now decided to live in town. I was living the rural life for a couple of years,

1:17.1

almost two years. And it was amazing. And I loved, loved, loved being outside of the city,

1:24.9

having so much space. And ultimately, I started to find that I, having so much space.

1:33.4

And ultimately, I started to find that I was making so many trips into town,

1:35.7

which for me was about a 45-minute drive.

1:42.0

And I started making more friends and getting more connected to the community in Bozeman.

1:50.5

So what I have done is I've decided to keep my house outside of Bozeman and I am turning it into my dream, Airbnb.

1:53.7

I've always wanted to have an Airbnb.

1:55.9

It's something I've been interested in for forever.

1:58.7

So that's what's happening in my world. It has been bananas.

2:05.0

But of course, moving into a new house, one of the first things I had to set up, the podcast

2:11.9

studio. And this is just the very beginning. This is obviously you can tell I have like a blank wall behind me.

2:19.1

I do have this chair.

2:20.5

Courtesy of my fiancé, might I add.

2:23.1

He was so good.

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