EP 43: How to Navigate the Early Stages of Dating: Attachment Theory Informed Relationship Pacing
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
4.7 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 15 July 2020
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
One of the MOST IMPORTANT topics for the early stages of dating…
RELATIONSHIP PACING
Do you know what I am talking about?
A lot of you are in the deep end of the pool, while your partner is hanging out in the 3ft section–dipping a toe in...
Uh-Oh; been there done that, got that t-shirt and I’m telling you: it.doesn’t.end.well
In this episode: I explain relationship pacing using an Attachment Theory lens
This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone on the dating scene who is serious about having a healthy relationship
I openly discuss:
- Understanding “Investment” and why some of you are way too quick to commit
- The Keys to Relationship Pacing
- The importance of “Balance” and what it means when it comes to Pacing
LGV listeners–I would LOVE to know your takeaways from this episode–so make sure you tag me in your IG stories with what you learned!
P.S. Send me a DM if you would like to be invited to the exclusive LIVE training I will be doing on “ Successfully Having the Define the Relationship Talk” aka not peeing your pants during the “what are we conversation” LOL. You don’t want to miss this!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast with me your host Dr. Morgan Anderson, clinical psychologist, relationship |
| 0:16.4 | coach, love expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, and athletic wear connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise |
| 0:27.3 | yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:34.0 | Each week, two episodes will air, |
| 0:37.0 | featuring expert advice, live coaching, |
| 0:40.0 | and tips showing you exactly how to improve your life and attract great relationships. |
| 0:46.0 | You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and loved. |
| 0:51.0 | So buckle up and let's get vulnerable. |
| 0:55.0 | Exciting update. I have a brand new free resource. You all asked for it so I created it. |
| 1:02.0 | This is a relationship attachment quiz designed to help you |
| 1:06.0 | understand your patterns in relationships. You can take this totally free quiz now by going to the link in my |
| 1:15.0 | Instagram bio at Dr Morgan coaching and click attachment quiz and you all know I |
| 1:22.1 | love to hear from you so either screenshot and tag me |
| 1:26.4 | with your result or send me a DM letting me know your result from the quiz |
| 1:32.2 | You guys this is totally free and this will be helpful to you. So go check it out. Can't wait for you to take the quiz and to share your results. |
| 1:42.0 | Hey everybody, Dr. Morgan here. |
| 1:45.0 | I am so excited about today's episode. |
| 1:48.0 | I know I always say that, but I am really excited about today's episode. I had a great vacation. I was out in the wilderness near Glacier National Park, |
| 2:00.0 | Flathead Lake area, was out there with one of my best friends and just enjoying nature. |
| 2:09.7 | I always forget how healing that is to just go out, be outside, be you know away from the |
| 2:17.8 | gram, away from the phone, and just be with people who light you up, people who give you energy. |
| 2:25.0 | I know that during these times it's hard to connect with the people that really give us energy, |
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