You know, guys can be really complicated. And I'm sure if you ask them, they'll say we're complicated

too. But what makes things more complicated even than just them or us is when we get into

relationships for all the wrong reasons. And a lot of times we don't think they're the wrong

reasons. We think there are solutions. We think we are pining for something

that is going to fix our sadness, fix our mess that we have going on, or just we're unhappy

or whatever it is. We think this thing, talking to this guy, is going to fix it. But in fact,

we're actually setting ourselves up for a lot of problems.

I have tons to tell you. And make sure you're not trying to get married for one of these reasons.

Be careful.

Let's go. Hello, Samalekam. Welcome back to the Mindful Muslim Speaks podcast. I'm your host, Mindful

Muslim, Muslim coming to you every week on topics on love, relationships, life hacks, life balance, emotional well-being, all the stuff

we go through as women that no one's talking about at the level that we talk about it.

And for those of you who are new, welcome, welcome.

If you are our old-time listeners, some of you guys DM me all the time about how long

you've been listening, welcome back family.

And so al-h-h-a-la, this is a space where everyone, regardless of your level of imman, regardless of kind of how messy or organized your life is, we can all relate to one another and how difficult every day can be, but also so beautiful and such opportunity and gratitude we can have for it as well. And so this is a place to kind of get yourself refocused, get you some tips, get you some advice.

I do a lot of hacks and tips and things.

For those of you don't know me, I'm a mom of five licensed educator of 25 years.

So I've been doing this a long, long, long time.

And so al-h-h-a-later-l. And lately a lot of you have been booking calls with me and I love talking to you.

And you know what?

It just brings up the topic of today because today is all about kind of the wrong reasons to get

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