EP 364: How to Properly Pace Yourself in Early Stages of Dating
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
4.7 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 30 August 2023
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
Are you going 75 in the 35 mile an hour zone… not on the road, but in the early stages of dating zone?!
This is one of the most common questions I get asked about dating:
“How do I pace myself? How do I know that I am not going too fast?”
Today’s episode:
- Gives you everything you need to better understand relationship pacing, and the strategies to implement it
- Understand why you rush into relationships
- Get clear on the benefits of slowing down your emotional investment (learn to become a love scientist)
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast with me your host Dr Morgan Anderson clinical psychologist |
| 0:15.4 | relationship coach love expert creator of the ESL relationship method and |
| 0:20.8 | athletic wear connoisseur. |
| 0:23.6 | My mission is to help you raise yourself worth, |
| 0:27.1 | have great relationships, and step confidently |
| 0:29.8 | into the next level of your life. |
| 0:32.2 | Each week, two episodes will air featuring expert |
| 0:35.2 | advice, live coaching and tips showing you exactly how to improve your life and |
| 0:40.6 | attract great relationships. You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and |
| 0:46.4 | loved. So buckle up and let's get vulnerable. |
| 0:56.0 | It's my birthday month. It's August and I have an amazing gift for you because we all know that giving is actually better than receiving and I know the pain of |
| 1:06.9 | wasting your time in relationships that go nowhere of getting heartbroken over and over dating people who are emotionally unavailable |
| 1:17.0 | and realizing, oh gosh, maybe I'm emotionally unavailable, just the pain of being on the dating roller coaster, not having |
| 1:26.7 | the relationship that you've wanted, watching all your friends, get married, or get engaged, |
| 1:31.9 | or your friends are having kids and you're going to |
| 1:35.3 | weddings and you're having to find a wedding date and you're hoping that |
| 1:39.0 | your person that you're casually seeing is actually going to show up to the wedding with you and just all the stress of not having your romantic partner, not having that part of your life figured out. |
| 1:55.0 | It can be a huge drain on your energy. |
| 1:58.0 | It impacts you in so many ways, mentally, physically, etc. So I want to give you the gift of secure |
| 2:08.9 | attachment when you learn how to embody the securely attached woman, dating is fun and you're able to |
| 2:16.1 | attract the great relationship you've always wanted and you become that version of you that |
| 2:22.4 | not only attracts that partner but maintains that relationship for life. |
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