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Feminist Wellness

Ep #352: Why We Celebrate Our Emotional Outsourcing Habits

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Lifecoaching, Mental Health, Holistic, Feminist, Self-improvement, Fatigue, Alternative Health, Feelingstuckinlife, Spirituality, Healthygut, Health & Fitness, Mindbodyconnection, Guthealth, Connectionsbetweenthoughtsandhealth, Education, Ibs, Gutmicrobiome, Feminism

4.9988 Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

#352: Ever catch yourself saying "yes" to something while your soul is screaming "absolutely not”?

Maybe it's baking three dozen cupcakes for the office party when you're already running on fumes. Or RSVPing to an event that makes your spirit shrivel like a forgotten grape. Here's what might surprise you: these exhausting habits that I’ve coined emotional outsourcing aren’t character flaws. They're actually proof of your brilliance.

Join me this week to learn how emotional outsourcing in action isn’t proof that you’re fundamentally broken, but rather survival skills that worked their adorable little hearts out for us and that need to be celebrated. You’ll learn what happens when we genuinely appreciate our survival strategies, and the difference between shame-based and love-based change.

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Hey, cutie, before we start today, I want to tell you a tiny secret about the book world that still

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if people care enough to keep that stack alive. You are the signal they listen to. You, when you buy a

0:18.9

copy or 10 for your holiday gifting, you're telling them this work matters.

0:23.9

When you, yes, you leave a review on Amazon and Goodreads, even if your copy came from your local

0:29.4

independent bookstore or your library, you're telling them this book needs to stay in the world.

0:35.7

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slash book. You'll find breathwork, audiobook giveaway, and even coaching raffles waiting for you.

0:47.7

Thank you for doing your part. I appreciate you.

1:06.2

This is feminist wellness, and I'm your host, nurse practitioner, somatics and nervous system nerd, and life coach, Bea Victoria Albina.

1:09.9

I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety,

1:12.7

perfectionism, and codependency so you can live from your beautiful heart. Welcome, my love.

1:17.9

Let's get started. Hello, hello, my love. I hope this finds you doing so well.

1:28.5

Picture this, my beautiful human.

1:30.9

You're sitting at your desk.

1:32.3

You're drowning in a sea of sticky notes that say,

1:35.8

remember to be nice.

1:37.3

You're replying to emails you definitely didn't need to take on,

1:40.5

and nobody expected you to, but here you are doing it.

1:43.8

Again, RSVPing yes to an event

1:47.2

that makes your soul shrivel like a forgotten grape at the back of the minivan, offering to bake

1:51.9

three dozen cupcakes for the office party, even though you are already running on fumes, prayers,

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