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🗓️ 31 July 2025
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#337: Money shapes more than just our bank accounts - it touches how we show up in relationships, how we value ourselves, and whether we feel secure enough to set boundaries with those who support us financially.
This week, I sit down with financial therapist and author of Feel-Good Finance: Untangle Your Relationship with Money for Better Mental, Emotional, and Financial Well-Being, Aja Evans, to explore the intersection of money and mental health, particularly how codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits show up in our financial lives.
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| 0:00.0 | Oh, hey, a real casual like, I just spent the last couple years writing a book, no bigs, actually really bigs. |
| 0:06.1 | It's called End Emotional Outsourcing, How to Overcome Your Codependent Perfectionist and People Pleasing Habits, |
| 0:11.4 | and it is the book I really needed when I was neck deep and all of that. And it didn't exist. |
| 0:17.7 | A feminist reframing of emotional outsourcing didn't exist. So I, you know, |
| 0:24.0 | casually took a couple years, wrote a whole thing, and I'm sharing it with you. September 30th, |
| 0:29.5 | it hits the shelves. Publishing these days is super dependent on pre-orders. So the number of people |
| 0:35.2 | who pre-order really dictate how many copies get published. So if you're |
| 0:40.5 | enjoying the show, if this work is helpful, I would be so grateful if you could head over to my |
| 0:46.0 | website, beatricealbina.com slash book, pre-order a copy now, get a couple for some friends, |
| 0:52.7 | share them, give one to your library, give one to your |
| 0:56.0 | kids, teachers, give them to the people. It really helps to get this important work into so many |
| 1:02.8 | hands. And, you know, books, the library, it's one of the most important democratic things we have |
| 1:09.4 | left in this world, because it makes it so accessible. But to get |
| 1:14.2 | the book into libraries, the pre-order number is seen to be high. I know. It's kind of bonkers, |
| 1:19.3 | but I'm just letting you see behind the old curtain. And that's the truth. So I would really be |
| 1:24.8 | grateful for your help. Beatricealbina.com slash book. |
| 1:29.6 | At this point, it's not about me making money off the book. |
| 1:33.1 | It's about getting it into people's hands, which is all I want. |
| 1:36.8 | So thank you, thank you, thank you for your help. |
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| 1:45.6 | slash book, get your book, get your presents, order a whole bunch, share them with the people you love. |
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