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Feminist Wellness

Ep #330: Emotional Outsourcing 101

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Lifecoaching, Holistic, Feminist, Self-improvement, Fatigue, Alternative Health, Feelingstuckinlife, Spirituality, Healthygut, Health & Fitness, Mindbodyconnection, Guthealth, Connectionsbetweenthoughtsandhealth, Education, Ibs, Gutmicrobiome, Feminism

4.9988 Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

#330: If you've ever found yourself constantly scanning other people's faces for approval, shapeshifting to keep the peace, or feeling completely disconnected from what you actually want, this episode is for you.

You might call this people-pleasing or being too sensitive, but something much more profound is going on here: you’re living with emotional outsourcing.


Tune in this week as I break down how emotional outsourcing develops early, gets reinforced by cultural systems, and shows up in our bodies as chronic anxiety, exhaustion, and disconnection.


Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/330

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0:00.0

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0:37.3

Thank you. slash get anchored. The sooner you apply, the more presents you get. This is feminist wellness, and I'm your host, nurse practitioner, somatics and

0:53.2

and nervous system nerd, and life coach,

0:55.4

Baya Victoria Albina. I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety, perfectionism,

1:00.4

and codependency so you can live from your beautiful heart. Welcome, my love. Let's get started.

1:08.8

Hello, hello, my love. I hope this finds you doing so well. Today we're deep diving into a pattern that I call emotional outsourcing. And if you've ever found yourself constantly scanning other people's faces for approval, shapeshifting to keep the peace or feeling completely disconnected from what you

1:30.0

actually want, this episode is hopefully going to land for you. Because here's the thing,

1:36.0

what you might call people-pleasing or being too sensitive or caring too much about what other

1:41.1

people think, I'm going to show you that it's actually something

1:44.6

much more profound. It is an absolutely brilliant, amazing, intelligent survival strategy that

1:53.3

your nervous system and little inner children you created to keep you safe and connected in a world

1:59.7

that didn't feel safe enough to hold your

2:03.3

full authenticity. So get comfy, grab some tea, put on your softies, because we're going to trace

2:09.7

this pattern all the way back to its roots, and by the end, you're going to understand why you do

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