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Feminist Wellness

Ep #323: Relationship Magical Realism

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Lifecoaching, Holistic, Feminist, Self-improvement, Fatigue, Alternative Health, Feelingstuckinlife, Spirituality, Healthygut, Health & Fitness, Mindbodyconnection, Guthealth, Connectionsbetweenthoughtsandhealth, Education, Ibs, Gutmicrobiome, Feminism

4.9988 Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

#323: Are you waiting for someone to magically transform into the person you need them to be?

In this episode, I break down what relationship magical realism is, how it manifests in our thoughts and behaviors, and the real cost of staying in these fantasies. I share practical steps to recognize when you're caught in this pattern and how to start seeing relationships for what they truly are – not just what you wish they could be.


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Hey, before we dive in, if you're stuck in old habits you know aren't working but can't seem to change,

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You'll learn all about why so many of us stay feeling so stuck in self-doubt, people-pleasing,

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and why you can't mindset your way out. Sign up at Beatrice albina.com slash workshop. This is feminist wellness, and I'm your host,

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Nurse Practitioner, Functional Medicine Expert, and Life Coach,

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Bea Victoria Albina.

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I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety, perfectionism, and codependency,

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so you can live from your beautiful

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heart. Welcome, my love. Let's get started. Hello, hello, my love. I hope this finds you doing so

1:05.5

well. Today, we're diving into a concept that I first started using in my coaching work all the way back in

1:12.0

like 2013 or 14, which feels like about 600 lifetimes ago, and that is relationship magical realism.

1:22.0

So I first fell in love with the concept of magical realism, like the classic kind, in undergrad at Oberlin, where I studied

1:28.5

Latin American studies and spent an inordinate amount of time obsessing over the works of

1:33.7

Gabriel Garcia-Marquez, Isabella Allende, and all the writers who wove the fantastical

1:40.6

into the mundane as if it were the most natural thing in the world, which I think it is.

1:45.8

But really, I think this love was inevitable. I am, after all, a Latina from South America.

1:52.3

So magical realism isn't just a literary genre to me. It's something in my bones, in my blood.

1:58.6

It's the way I was raised, the way stories were told around me,

2:02.3

the way life itself feels when you grow up in a culture where the veil between the possible

2:07.5

and the impossible is just a little thinner. And as it turns out, this way of seeing the

2:13.4

world, the blending of the real, as it were, and the imagined has a funny way of showing up

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