Ep #29: Codependent Thinking
Feminist Wellness
Béa Victoria Albina
4.9 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 5 September 2019
⏱️ 41 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
In this episode, we'll talk about what codependence is, some of the classic signs of a codependent relationship, and how to move toward thoughtful interdependence instead. We'll also discuss the topic of autonomy and why it's different from independence, and why the messages society sends us about independence can be so confusing.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://victoriaalbina.com/29
Mentioned in this episode:
Grab my book, End Emotional Outsourcing!
Please support my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, by ordering a copy and reviewing it on Amazon or GoodReads! You can leave a review even if you bought it somewhere else. Bring your screenshot to: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ for gifts and raffle goodies. Thank you for helping this work ripple out.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Before we dive in, my love, if you find yourself in a situation where you're being abused in any way, |
| 0:06.9 | please know that you don't have to go it alone. |
| 0:10.5 | I'm putting some links to some really helpful organizations in the show notes. |
| 0:15.0 | Reach out, find a trusted therapist or counselor in your area, contact a hotline, |
| 0:21.0 | and take care of yourself. You are so worth it, my love. |
| 0:26.0 | Have you ever found yourself chronically putting someone else's needs ahead of your own? |
| 0:31.0 | Do you find it hard to make decisions for fear of someone's disapproval? |
| 0:36.7 | Do you often worry about what others will think of you? Sometimes even to the point of not doing what you want for yourself. |
| 0:45.0 | Being in relationship with others is a vital part of being alive, |
| 0:49.0 | crucial for our health and wellness, |
| 0:51.0 | and while being connected with others |
| 0:53.1 | can be a beautiful source of joy in our lives, |
| 0:56.0 | if our thought habits lead us into coddependent thinking patterns, |
| 0:59.8 | our relationships can come to feel exhausting, overwhelming, and draining as we give too much of ourselves |
| 1:06.3 | away in a vain attempt to please or control another human. Today we'll talk about the concepts of independence, |
| 1:15.6 | autonomy, and co-dependence in the first episode in a wee series of episodes |
| 1:21.5 | about co-dependence and self-love. |
| 1:24.7 | Keep listening, my darling. |
| 1:26.3 | This is a juicy topic. |
| 1:29.3 | You're listening to Feminist Wellness, |
| 1:31.8 | the only podcast that combines functional medicine, life coaching, and |
| 1:36.1 | feminism to teach smart women how to reclaim their power and restore their health. |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Béa Victoria Albina, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Béa Victoria Albina and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.

