Ep. 255: Sharing Core ‘Directional’ Values Matters for Compatibility

The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Natalie Lue

Emotionalunavailability, Health & Fitness, Emotionalintelligence, Emotionalbaggage, Lifeadvice, Mental Health, Happiness, Society & Culture, Psychology, Relationships, Selfesteem, Selfcare, Dating

4.9 • 867 Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2022

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Natalie delves into the topic of core 'directional' values and why they matter for compatibility in our relationships and our overall sense of well-being.

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0:00.0	I'm Natalie Lou in your listening to the baggage reclaim sessions.
0:08.0	Hello hello.
0:10.0	How are you doing?
0:13.0	One of the most popular episodes of this show is episode 2009, the compatibility factor.
0:19.0	In it I explained how we experienced compatibility in a relationship and why we would
0:24.4	experience incompatibility. Simply put, compatibility is what we
0:30.0	experience when we share core values where it can't.
0:34.2	So we share core values in terms of character and direction.
0:39.3	When this occurs, we experience compatibility and our emotional needs are met by the relationship.
0:45.7	This means that if we do not share core values in terms of character or direction,
0:52.8	then it doesn't matter what else we think we have in common with that person
0:57.6	the relationship isn't going to work.
0:59.7	We are going to experience incompatibility.
1:02.3	Our emotional needs will not be met.
1:06.3	That episode yielded so many questions around directional values.
1:10.7	So many of you wanted to know more about it it and so that's what I want to talk
1:14.4	about in this episode. Our values are the things that we need to be, do and have in
1:20.9	order to live our lives happily and authentically. They express our preferences, principles and priorities and are really reflected in our needs, desires, expectations, feelings and opinions.
1:35.7	And the more that we live our lives in alignment with our values is the more boundary that we are.
1:45.2	Values fall into two main categories.
1:48.3	So you have core values or what somebody else might call primary values and then there are secondary values.
1:55.3	Those core values are the character and directional ones.
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