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The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Ep. 236: Let's Stop Minimising Those Big Little Things

The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Natalie Lue

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9867 Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2021

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Natalie explains why downplaying the truth or significance of something—minimising—whether it's who we are and what we need or other people's asks, expectations or behaviour, leads to big problems.  

 

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0:00.0

I'm Natalie Lou in your listening to the baggage reclaim sessions.

0:08.0

Hello hello.

0:10.0

How are you doing?

0:13.0

Something that is remarkably easy to find ourselves doing

0:19.0

is minimizing ourselves, specifically minimizing actions and choices that were

0:27.4

undertaking that are actually having a big impact on us, but also minimizing what others ask or expect of us. And so it plays out as we keep

0:40.6

putting things down to being something little.

0:43.5

Oh, it's just a little thing.

0:45.1

It'll just take a minute.

0:46.5

It will just take a moment.

0:48.2

It's not that big a deal.

0:49.9

I can spare that bit of time.

0:52.1

I can spare a bit of myself for this.

0:55.0

And yes, sometimes people come to us and they're like,

0:58.0

it's just a quick favor.

1:00.0

It's just a little thing. It's a little ask. It won't take too long. I just need to

1:06.8

pick your brain for five minutes. And then we realize that we have lost the run of our day.

1:16.8

We don't know where the morning went.

1:19.0

Maybe we don't even know where the whole day went.

1:21.4

We set out with particular intentions for the day and that went out the

1:25.8

window. It could be in fact that we get to the end of a week, maybe the end of a

1:30.9

month, maybe the end of a few months and go what the hell

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