Ep #194: Getting Anchored: Codependency, Perfectionism and All-or-Nothing Thinking
Feminist Wellness
Béa Victoria Albina
4.9 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 3 November 2022
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
#194: Join me this week to discover how, with a little pause, you can recognize your own power to choose a way of thinking that helps you step more fully into your autonomy, agency, and authenticity. I’m showing you why defaulting to all-or-nothing thinking feels like the safe choice, the biochemical stress response this elicits, and the beauty of learning to live in the grey.
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| 0:00.0 | This is feminist wellness and I'm your host nurse practitioner functional medicine expert and life coach Victoria Albina. |
| 0:15.0 | I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety, perfectionism and codependency so you can live from your beautiful heart. |
| 0:22.0 | Welcome, my love. let's get started. |
| 0:28.8 | Hello hello my love. I hope this finds you doing so well. |
| 0:34.0 | So this week I know I promised you a show all about the details of interdependence. |
| 0:40.0 | And as you can probably hear from my voice, I got the Rona. |
| 0:45.0 | Finally. |
| 0:47.0 | I managed to escape it for many years now. |
| 0:50.0 | And it finally got me at an event in the city where we all did our PCRs and our |
| 0:56.1 | rapids and still you know it happens I don't feel terrible which I'm grateful for but I don't feel well and so instead of |
| 1:06.9 | being co-dependent with y'all and trying to people please you instead of taking |
| 1:11.4 | care of me I'm going to share one of the please you have |
| 1:15.0 | instead of taking care of me, I'm going to share one of the treasure trove of episodes |
| 1:16.9 | that a lot of you have loved that is one of the most downloaded and I've gotten |
| 1:21.1 | a lot of dams and emails about so I'm thrilled to share that with you all today |
| 1:26.1 | So I can go back to doing what I've been doing which is taking so many supplements. I rattle when I walk |
| 1:34.6 | Spending hours in the Epsom Salt Bath and the sauna on the couch, really just allowing my body to rest, not |
| 1:40.9 | pushing myself, not trying to do anything but listen to my body, which is such a gift and a privilege |
| 1:49.8 | to be able to take time away from work and to step back and to let myself rest all this week. |
| 1:56.0 | I've just really been couch in it and taking my vitamin C and my cod liver oil and my bone |
| 2:01.5 | broth and vitamin D and zinc |
| 2:03.2 | pecolonate etc etc and be present to my body and its needs. |
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