Ep. 166: We've Got To Stop Pumping People Up With Our Great Expectations
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 10 January 2020
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
Trying to get something or someone to live up to the picture we painted in our mind can be a great source of hurt for us humans. It's something we have to strive to do less of to heal, grow and learn. What Natalie highlights in the first episode of 2020, though, is how part of what keeps us stuck in this disappointment cycle is that, sometimes, the very people who can't or don't want to meet those expectations *still* want us to continue expecting. Why? Because they benefit from it.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Natalie Lou and you're listening to the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:07.0 | Hello hello! |
| 0:09.0 | Happy New Year. |
| 0:11.0 | Welcome to the very first episode of 2020 and the first episode of a new decade. |
| 0:18.6 | It is good to be back after a few weeks break. |
| 0:22.0 | I was very tired in a run-up to Christmas. I'm still a little bit |
| 0:25.2 | tired but I'm gradually rebooting. The kids are back at school and there's a level of |
| 0:30.6 | normality starting to kick in. I've even started running again because I actually |
| 0:35.5 | signed up to do a 10K a few months ago and the new year dawned on me and I suddenly realized this 10k is about five six weeks away. |
| 0:45.0 | I really need to get my arse in gear. |
| 0:48.0 | So I've actually run three times since the start of the year |
| 0:51.0 | and I'm aiming to run like a couple of times a week. |
| 0:54.0 | I'm not going to overdo it. I'm not trying to get you know some big old time or |
| 0:58.3 | anything like that. It's just actually for fun but also just to gradually sort of get my energy levels up, you know, my fitness as well. |
| 1:06.8 | Now, before I get into today's episode, a quick heads up about a few things. I mentioned several episodes back that I was planning |
| 1:17.4 | to do an event on January 25th. I recognize my energy levels and the event is still happening but it's going to be on Saturday the 15th of February. |
| 1:28.8 | The event is Finding You. It's a workshop about how to love yourself and I'm doing it with my friend |
| 1:35.2 | Carly Ann who is a coach who works primarily with women and helps them with managing stress and also growing their |
| 1:46.5 | self-esteem. So she does that as part of her day job but also as part of her own private practice as well. So we're really |
| 1:54.3 | really looking forward to that because a lot of people hear the words like |
| 1:57.8 | self-love, self-care, they actually have no idea what they mean or they have a bit of a sense of it but it's like yes but how do I do it? |
| 2:08.0 | Well that's what the workshop is all about. |
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