Eli Harwood: Why 'Fairness' Is an Illusion in Parenting and Relationships

Negotiate Anything

American Negotiation Institute

Education, Business, Self-improvement

4.7 • 748 Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Compan In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," Kwame Christian hosts therapist Eli Harwood to delve into the fascinating topic of developing emotional intelligence and secure attachments. Eli shares her journey of translating her extensive therapy experience into practical advice for nurturing secure relationships through her initiative, Attachment Nerd. Eli and Kwame discuss the intricacies of attachment theory, exploring how childhood experiences shape our emotional responses and relationships in adulthood. They also explore strategies for parents to build securely attached children, highlighting how these early influences impact negotiation skills in both personal and professional settings. What will be covered: The role of attachment theory in shaping emotional intelligence and relationships. How childhood experiences influence adult negotiation behaviors. Practical strategies for parents to cultivate secure attachments in children. Connect with Eli Harwood Follow Eli on LinkedIn https://attachmentnerd.com/ Listen to The Attachment Nerd Podcast Pre-order the book: Raising Securely Attached Kid Buy the Book: Securely Attached Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

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0:00.0	Hey, I'm Kwame Christian and you are about to step into the world of Negotiate Anything,
0:06.2	the number one negotiation podcast in the world where we teach you how to make difficult conversations easier while getting more of what you want in the process.
0:14.7	Each episode is packed with practical tips and strategies from the experts.
0:19.5	We delve into negotiation, conflict resolution,
0:22.7	and leadership skills that are crucial in both business and in life. Whether you're closing a deal,
0:28.3	managing a team, or navigating personal relationships, negotiate anything provides you with the tools
0:33.9	you need to succeed. Our conversations are real, relatable, and most importantly, rooted
0:39.8	in practicality. So if you're ready to transform your conversations and elevate your negotiation skills,
0:46.2	join me on Negotiate Anything. Subscribe and listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you love to
0:52.7	listen. Let's make every conversation a winning negotiation.
0:58.8	Eli, thanks for joining us today. Thank you so much for having me. It is our pleasure. So how would
1:04.8	you get us started by telling us a little bit about yourself and what you do? So I am a therapist
1:09.3	and I've been practicing for almost 17 years.
1:13.3	And two years ago, in my process, I hit this point where I was like, I have to share some of
1:19.7	the information that I have out in the wild because I was a little bit weary. I was weary of
1:27.0	sitting with folks, whether they were adults or families,
1:31.5	and recognizing that they didn't have as they needed to build secure relationships. And so they were
1:38.1	healing from all of these repeated interactions that were wounding. And I thought, like, if I could get these people
1:45.4	this information ahead of time, a lot of this can be prevented. So I decided to start attachment
1:50.3	nerd. And attachment nerd is basically just me on the internet, running my mouth about all of the
1:55.4	data and research about secure relationships and how we can practically apply that data into our lives with the people
2:03.0	who matter most to us. So with our sweethearts, with our besties, and with our children. And then I
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