Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. So this is one of the

hardest things for me in this life,

it's knowing when to pursue what you want

with everything you have and when to let it go.

Because I believe that the way the universe works,

like if I look back in my life

and I think about all the things that I wanted so bad, whether those things are, you know,

whether it's a deal or a person or a relationship to work or whatever it is when you want something so bad

it usually never works out it almost feels like you are pushing a round peg into a

square hole and when I look back and look at all the great things

that have happened in my life I mean things that really changed my life they

happened seamlessly and there are things that kind of came out of the blue. It's like that saying that

when you're when you're dating if you're trying to find someone you never do but when you're not

looking they come and I really believe there's truth to that. I think the science behind that is

it has to do with our magnets changing or flipping

because of desperation, right?

I really believe in like our negative state are,

when you want something so bad that you become desperate,

that you become willing to exchange integrity who you are

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