Strength is the willingness to grow, the willingness to receive feedback, to live more truthfully, to be more fair, to be more kind, to change course when we need to.

That's uncomfortable, and that's why a lot of us resisted and get mad at our partners instead for not giving us the picture of ourselves we want.

But if you really love and you really care about the person

opposite you, you're willing to let them talk straight to you about who you are. You're willing

to consider sincerely what they know about you or experience of you that you can't see as well.

A lot of times we shoot the messenger, but if we are strong,

if we have courage, if we love, if we care about our impact, we're willing to actually

tolerate that puncture to our egos.

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