Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

You thought this episode was going to be me reading a letter to my X or one of my X's and that's not what this episode is going to be.

It's actually going to be you reading a letter to one of your exes.

So if you resonate with this message, then just share this episode to your ex.

Because I think a lot of people have a lot of feelings about their exes and it just creates stones in our

shoe. The world doesn't need any more anger and resentment. So if you're in a place where you want to

Just let your ex know in a healthy way that you're just throwing love at them and you hope them well then

share this episode or if you know someone who needs to give that message to their

ex but maybe you don't want to say it or don't know how, then I have

written it out for you. All right, so here it goes.

Dear X. it goes.

Dear X, can we share a moment, a new one with nothing attached for getting everything we were and why things didn't work, releasing all judgment and what ifs. Can we share a moment? Just one where I can see you now today as a human being minus expectations ideas of love, what went wrong, and the

crumbled checklist we had peeking from our back pockets.

Can we share the fears before we kissed

because those felt real?

Can we just be?

Without labels or dissecting dynamics. For one moment can I experience you without us.

Not to spark or re-ignite anything, but to be reminded that we are nothing more than two people who ran

towards something they felt but fell. With scraped knees and a half smile can we

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