So, Dami wants to backtrack on her phrase.

She's been using on the virtue for a while.

I've said this so much because I've heard it said to me and I always took it as a compliment.

So the specific phrase, and I think it is well meaning, but I just maybe dissected it

a little too much.

And now I'm like, oh, no, but we've just done a whole 180 and it's problematic.

So I don't believe in this phrase anymore.

I'm not going to say it anymore because it upsets me.

Okay.

So for years, when I've run into people as an adult that knew me and my childhood or

knew my family, they're always like, wow, you're really well adjusted considering.

You know, and I know you guys are like, what?

Well adjusted.

But to those people, I'm really normal.

They're like, oh my god, I don't know what I expected knowing you then or knowing what

y'all went through, but you're so normal now.

You were such a resilient kid.

It's a good thing.

You were so resilient because you really did okay for yourself.

So and I've always been like, oh my god, that's my superpower.

That's my, that's the biggest compliment I've ever received because I don't get a lot

of them.

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