It's a classic. We were on a break or are we broken up, right? That's what the email's

eventually going to be here. You got something going on in your life. Share it with us.

We love sharing your drama. Hit us up at the birch show.com.

All right, so before we even get into this, let's define it. Okay? A break for the most

part means that, hey, we're just taking a little time apart, right? But I think as a stereotype,

it's like, all right, that means dudes have the green light to go forward. If you're going

to hook up, you got a window of opportunity, whereas a woman I think is more like, all right,

you know what, why does the other people are just taking a half step back? Do I have that right?

That's how I take it, especially if you've been with somebody for a very long time. I give you

been with somebody for years and you decide to take a break. You're going to take a beat from your

relationship. That doesn't mean to go out and pursue anything with anybody else. If I was with somebody

for a very long time and we were on a break and they go out and did something with somebody else,

I would be like, then you never really love me. So on a break and breaking up are two different

things. Do we agree on this, Ma? Yes. Yes. Two different things for sure. If you guys are on a

break, she hooks up with a dude. It's pretty much over, right? For the most part. There's a little

welcome room. Depends on how long the relationship was. I felt like if you weren't in a relationship

a lot longer, then it's sometimes you could, you could be a little more forgiving if you was like,

that's nothing. Answer you wanted. I don't have a agenda. I'm just trying to get to five minutes.

All right, Cash. You got the email or who's got the email? I've got it. Dear Bird show. First,

I absolutely love you guys and follow y'all religiously, even during the summer since this

teacher is off. Second, help. Please keep me anonymous and call me Julia. There's a guy friend of

mine. We'll call him Liam. We've been close friends for 20 plus years grew up together. So our

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