Dad Tired Daily 006: Are You Resting… or Just Checking Out?
Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes
5 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 14 January 2026
⏱️ 6 minutes
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Summary
How do you know if you’re actually resting… or just checking out?
In today’s Dad Tired Daily, Jerrad talks about the difference between restorative, soul-level rest and numbing behaviors that help us escape but don’t actually restore us.
Most men aren’t lazy — they’re tired. And when we don’t know how to rest, we reach for things that temporarily quiet the noise but leave us more exhausted the next day.
This episode will help you:
- Discern rest vs. numbing in everyday life
- Understand why numbing works short-term but drains you long-term
- Learn what real, boring, restorative rest actually looks like
- Practice a simple way to help your soul slow down
Inspired by Psalm 23 and Jesus’ invitation to rest.
Rested men lead their families well.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | How do you know the difference between resting, sabbathing, and just being lazy? |
| 0:04.9 | We'll talk about that today. |
| 0:06.3 | Welcome back to Dad Tired Daily. |
| 0:09.0 | You can tell how close a man is with Jesus by how well rested he is. |
| 0:13.2 | That's the claim that I made on yesterday's episode. |
| 0:16.0 | And one of the things that you could say as a pushback or maybe just confusion might be, |
| 0:21.4 | well, what does it actually look like to rest? So we talked about having these one minute pauses, these micro-sabiths |
| 0:26.7 | throughout the day where you kind of get your brain and your nervous system out of fight or flight. |
| 0:30.7 | You try to kind of calm yourself down. But sometimes I have personally felt like I don't |
| 0:35.2 | know the difference between being lazy or having a |
| 0:37.7 | lazy day or just being lazy for a few hours and am I actually resting. And so I want to tease out |
| 0:44.7 | for just a minute or two. Like what does it look like to rest versus what does it look like to be |
| 0:49.8 | lazy? And one is actually draining you. Doesn't restore your soul at all. It numbs you and pulls you |
| 0:57.4 | away from a moment. And one is actually very restorative. And so here's what I think it looks like. |
| 1:02.8 | I'm going to try to be super practical in today's episode. One way that you could take this is you |
| 1:07.7 | could say, I've had a long workday. I feel really exhausted. I'm mentally and |
| 1:12.2 | emotionally drained. And so you go home and you might think to yourself, I have an excuse. I listen to |
| 1:18.0 | the podcast. Jared said I need to rest. And so I'm going to come home and I'm going to binge out on a |
| 1:22.9 | Netflix show. I'm going to grab crack open, whatever you want to crack open to relax. We've got all kinds |
| 1:29.5 | of denominations here, so I never make assumptions. Maybe you have a pill that you go to, |
| 1:35.4 | or you start scrolling your phone, or there's a certain app that kind of, you know, helps you |
| 1:39.8 | just mentally check out from the chaos of the day. At the end of any of those activities that I just |
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