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Can I Get My Spouse To Care? #744

Sexy Marriage Radio

Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Relationships, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 September 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of marriage, focusing on health, sexuality, and the impact of personal choices on relationships. A wife emails us asking how she can help her husband care about their sex life. Our conversation explores how anxiety can manifest in physical ways, the importance of integrity in communication, and the need for collaboration in addressing marital challenges. We also emphasize the significance of facing personal issues and the impact they have on the relationship, encouraging listeners to engage in honest dialogue and seek solutions together. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended Version … In the XTD content, specific questions not only this wife can ask herself, but all of us can. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy

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0:00.0

Welcome back to sexy marriage radio, alongside my wife Pan, each and every week.

0:08.0

We're going where the nation wants to go. And you know how they let us know where they want to go.

0:12.9

Let me guess. Emails, calls. Yes, 214-702-9-565 or feedback at sexymarriage radio.com is how we get content to help speak directly to whatever

0:24.6

may be going on in the nation's marriages, families, life, thought processes, actions, what have you.

0:32.8

And so we're going to jump right in. This is an email that just came in. We're going from entitled from

0:37.3

the concerned wife that she just emailed in. We're going from entitled from the concerned wife

0:38.3

that she just emailed in right after last week's episode. How on earth do I get my husband

0:43.9

motivated to get healthy so that we can have sex again? He said his chest hurts when we have sex.

0:49.7

So he had his heart checked and it all is good, out fine he's just so out of shape that the

0:55.2

physical exertion of sex hurts him he says do you have any advice do you think there's anything

0:59.5

i can do to help him thanks for all that you do concerned wife well that's interesting

1:06.4

what jumps out to you on being interesting in that regard?

1:12.3

Well, I mean, concerning the wording that she uses,

1:15.5

I wonder if that's his wording,

1:16.9

that the physical exertion of sex hurts him.

1:21.2

Heart checks out.

1:22.4

Obviously, medical issues are the first concern.

1:27.3

Mm-hmm. But, um... medical issues are the first concern.

1:34.0

But there's a lot of, you know, what does hurt mean?

1:37.9

How does it hurt you?

1:39.1

Yeah.

1:40.9

So lots of questions here.

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