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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Are You Ready to Move in Together?

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2016

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

How soon is too soon to take the plunge and move in with your boyfriend? Should you wait until marriage is on the table? That’s what our caller Amber wants to know in today’s episode of LOVE Life. I give her – and you – my (somewhat controversial) opinion about the significance of this “milestone” as well as some concrete advice on the risk-free way to move your relationship forward without freaking him out.

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0:00.0

Hello everyone, this is Love Life with Matthew Hussie. You know, we've all been

0:06.6

hurt in relationships. If we're not careful, we can end up shutting ourselves off

0:11.0

completely to protect ourselves from more pain. But that cheats us out of

0:14.9

opportunities to find the love we really deserve. So what should we do instead? I

0:19.8

want to come back to this at the end of the show. But first, let's get into today's

0:24.4

episode. We have a caller in today. Her name is Amber. Amber, are you there? Yes, I'm

0:32.4

here. How are you? You know what, Amber, I woke up and I didn't have time to get

0:37.4

ready properly. So I just threw on clothes and it shows. Good thing you're on the

0:43.5

radio. Right. It except for the fact that Jamison is filming me. So technically, I'm

0:50.3

both on camera and radio. So I'm getting the worst of this. Oh, no good. No, at least

0:56.4

you can't see me yet. So that's something. So what was your question, Amber? I was

1:03.7

wondering, I've been my boyfriend. I've been together a little bit over the year. And

1:08.2

we're starting to think about, you know, moving in together. And I was just

1:12.0

wondering, you know, when's too soon? Like I've always kind of wanted to wait until, you

1:16.5

know, we were talking more about getting married and things like that. And I just, I just

1:20.7

wanted to get your advice on like, is it too soon? Like how do you know you're ready to

1:23.9

move in with someone? Yeah, I think I think that's a very good, an intelligent and important

1:29.6

question. There are lots of people I feel moving too quickly. They do it in the throws of

1:35.1

the passionate stage of the relationship. And look, who, who among us hasn't fallen in

1:41.0

love with someone and immediately thought, I just want to move in with them right this

1:44.5

second right now. And then they are really glad two months later that they didn't because

1:50.3

it would have been too quick and they would have possibly wrecked the whole thing. Now, the opposite

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