Matthew Hussey here with Love, Life, Quick Question for You. Do you know the nine words

that you can text a man that will make you completely irresistible to him? No, I'm

not talking about sex today. This is much more intelligent because it allows you to keep

your standard and drive him crazy with desire at the same time. I think you can guess what

it is? I'll come back to this at the end of the show today, so make sure not to miss

a minute. Oh, we are going to be dealing with a sensitive subject today. The title of

this little show is Is He Too Hot For You? In fact, I'm going to, let me, let me not be

sexist in this. I'm going to add Is She Too Hot For You? Let's address this to both

men and women. We all have this problem, which is that we go out. We see someone we think

is hot. And then immediately the game is over. It's over. Before it's even begun, it's

done. And I want to give three reasons why this happens with someone that you think is hot.

The first reason is that you put that person on a pedestal. That person immediately goes

onto this high and mighty place where you go, oh, I'm not worthy. This person is just too

good for me. Look how amazingly hot they are. And we start completely overvaluing them

before we've even begun. The second thing is they have what I call aesthetics amnesia.

In other words, they see someone who they think is hot. And all of a sudden their brain

says, this is the only hot person in the world. There is no one else like this person.

And I'll never meet anyone like this again. If I don't hook up with this person, I'm

screwed or not screwed as the case may be forever. So they suddenly get this complex, this

scarcity complex. There's no one else out there like them. The third big reason we get

scared is because of our intention. We get this huge intention that's far too much of an

agenda. It's like we want to go there and we want to seduce them and we want them to fall

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