The 20s are just really for kind of messing around and messing up and like falling in love with the process of that and like falling in love with ourselves through being messy and like learning that we don't have to be perfect because I feel like growing up, you know, we went to like high school and middle school whatever and we were just like very much so taught like

this is what you have to do to like be good enough and then once you're out of the school system

I feel like it's a big cracking of like who am I beyond like accolades and grades and successes

and like what college I get into like thinking about how I cared so much about what college I got into and now it doesn't even matter because I dropped out of college I get into, like thinking about how I cared so much about what college I got into

and now it doesn't even matter because I dropped out of college. I'm like, I base so much of my

worth off of that and I think 20s is kind of like a rediscovering for me personally of being

like who am I beyond that. So that's why early 20s for me felt really hard. Just a note to anyone

out there listening if you're in your mid-20s and you're feeling lost or not sure where

that direction is going, like, know that it will come and like you are your hardest, like,

judge and critic. And something that I feel like I'm working on a lot is like taking a step back

and being like, you know, everything will happen to you in your own time and like societal

structures that have been put in place with like getting into college, like having these

certain like milestones at certain times like doesn't have to be exactly the same for everyone

and there's no like right or wrong time for everything to fall into place for you. Whether you are currently in your 20s or you were older or you were younger, there is something to be said about the lessons learned during this time in everybody's lives

where we transition from adolescence and teenagehip to adulthood.

And that discomfort of growth and, you know, learning about ourselves,

learning about others and relationships and dynamics.

It's such an amazing time where we can learn such amazing lessons.

And this episode is a time capsule of what it's like to be a woman in her 20s.

This episode is with two of my very best friends.

And today I'm actually passing over the host hat to

Kumari. Oh, Coombs. Coombs and I have been friends since we were 15. And so now she's about to be

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