My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means

to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy

disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then

others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow your self-worth. I'm Shrinella Shay, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. I cannot wait to get into this

week's podcast episode or this week's topic that's talking about mistakes that I wish I would not

have made when I was active in my love addiction while dating. I hope that by sharing my experiences

that any woman who can relate to it can find some connection and also find some validation of what

you're going through along with hearing mistakes to not repeat for yourself and I want to continue

this by talking about in another week talk about mistakes made in my love avoidance when I was

dating but also as I have been in a long-term committed relationship which has been marriage for me.

I'm also going to have follow up episodes that talk about what love addiction can look like in

marriage and mistakes for you to avoid and also love avoidance and mistakes to avoid because

y'all being in partnership with someone or being in a relationship or having whatever it is that

you feel like is that missing peace will not fix and heal you. You are still the common denominator

and all of our ways that we can use relationships to self-medicate that we can avoid being in touch

with what we need the ways that our unresolved trauma can show up it will still show up no matter

what the circumstances are around you whether you're broke whether you're a millionaire whether you

have no kids whether you have lots of kids whether or not you are partnered or single you bring

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