93. Green flags to look out for in a partner
Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach
4.9 • 914 Ratings
🗓️ 21 February 2023
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
Today I go over 15 green flags to look for (and to take on board yourself). These traits are all golden and should be a stable in a healthy relationship. I also go over things that people think may be green flags but are actually the opposite.
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| 0:00.0 | Good morning, everyone. |
| 0:02.4 | Slash, you could be listening to this in the evening. |
| 0:04.8 | Welcome to episode 90-something, probably 94, who knows. |
| 0:08.7 | Today is going to be a very good day. |
| 0:12.1 | Today's going to be a great day because we're talking about green flags, what to look out |
| 0:15.5 | for in a partner that you actually like. |
| 0:19.7 | So instead of looking for all the negative traits, |
| 0:21.7 | instead of being like, okay, because I've spoken so much about red flags. And of course, |
| 0:25.0 | it's super important to know what a red flag is, obviously. But I think it's also really important |
| 0:30.0 | to know what a green flag is. So this is kind of the flip side of that. I'm going to be talking |
| 0:33.2 | about, you know, the really good signs in somebody that shows that they are going to be a good |
| 0:39.3 | long-term partner. Some of these things can also apply for friends, but I am definitely basing |
| 0:43.8 | this around romantic relationships. Also, I'm going to be going into, after I go through, I think |
| 0:48.8 | I've got like 16 or something of these green flags. I'm also going to go into what we might think is a green flag but is not, okay? |
| 1:00.1 | And I'll explain that in a little bit more detail, but this idea that people think that |
| 1:04.2 | if someone's a good partner, they should be doing this, but it's not necessarily the case. |
| 1:09.4 | There's certain things that are expected from a |
| 1:11.6 | partner and people think might be really good, but in reality, if they don't display these traits, |
| 1:15.9 | it still doesn't mean anything. Like, there could still be a great partner. So sometimes |
| 1:19.8 | there are fake green flags out there that I don't think should be considered a good, |
| 1:23.8 | necessarily a good trait, but more so maybe just a neutral trait that a partner would have. |
| 1:28.1 | Okay? |
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