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Do You F*cking Mind?

93. Green flags to look out for in a partner

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9914 Ratings

🗓️ 21 February 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Today I go over 15 green flags to look for (and to take on board yourself). These traits are all golden and should be a stable in a healthy relationship. I also go over things that people think may be green flags but are actually the opposite.

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0:00.0

Good morning, everyone.

0:02.4

Slash, you could be listening to this in the evening.

0:04.8

Welcome to episode 90-something, probably 94, who knows.

0:08.7

Today is going to be a very good day.

0:12.1

Today's going to be a great day because we're talking about green flags, what to look out

0:15.5

for in a partner that you actually like.

0:19.7

So instead of looking for all the negative traits,

0:21.7

instead of being like, okay, because I've spoken so much about red flags. And of course,

0:25.0

it's super important to know what a red flag is, obviously. But I think it's also really important

0:30.0

to know what a green flag is. So this is kind of the flip side of that. I'm going to be talking

0:33.2

about, you know, the really good signs in somebody that shows that they are going to be a good

0:39.3

long-term partner. Some of these things can also apply for friends, but I am definitely basing

0:43.8

this around romantic relationships. Also, I'm going to be going into, after I go through, I think

0:48.8

I've got like 16 or something of these green flags. I'm also going to go into what we might think is a green flag but is not, okay?

1:00.1

And I'll explain that in a little bit more detail, but this idea that people think that

1:04.2

if someone's a good partner, they should be doing this, but it's not necessarily the case.

1:09.4

There's certain things that are expected from a

1:11.6

partner and people think might be really good, but in reality, if they don't display these traits,

1:15.9

it still doesn't mean anything. Like, there could still be a great partner. So sometimes

1:19.8

there are fake green flags out there that I don't think should be considered a good,

1:23.8

necessarily a good trait, but more so maybe just a neutral trait that a partner would have.

1:28.1

Okay?

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