#9: The Guys' Side
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 17 July 2017
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
"My wife has no desire for sex. She doesn't want it, doesn't need it... and it seems like there is nothing I can do to change it. Now what?" Believe it or not, we get emails like this one all the time. And today, we have answers. In this episode, Juli sits down with Dr. Greg Smalley and Dr. David Clarke to hear the guys' side on what men struggle with when it comes to intimacy with their wives.
Guests: Dr. Greg Smalley & Dr. David Clarke
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, this is Julie Slattery with Java with Julie, and today we are re-airing an episode that we recorded |
| 0:06.2 | originally, I think it was probably three or four years ago. And this is a very different episode |
| 0:11.4 | of Job with Julie. I'll give you a little clue. We're actually not even having coffee on this |
| 0:15.8 | episode. So I still encourage you to get your cup of coffee and enjoy the program and I'll talk to you when it's done. |
| 0:23.4 | Well, welcome to Java with Julie and you'll notice just from listening right now that we are not in our normal place, which is Wisdom Tea House. |
| 0:32.2 | And the reason why is because today we are talking to the guys. |
| 0:37.4 | And we didn't want to take the guys to our fancy little tea house. |
| 0:41.4 | We brought them where they would feel comfortable to Brunswick Zone. |
| 0:45.4 | Yeah, you can hear the bowling in the background, and I've invited two guys to join me. |
| 0:50.3 | And I guess we can't call it job with Julie. |
| 0:52.2 | It's going to be sliders with slattery, maybe. |
| 1:14.7 | I don't know. That's good. Yeah, but Dr. Greg Smalley and Dr. David Clark, I feel like I should start a joke, like two psychologists come to a bowling alley type thing. Yeah. We could go there. We could. Yeah. So welcome to Job with Julie. Great to be here. It is wonderful. It's been pizza, bowling, smell of this. |
| 1:29.7 | Oh. Yeah. So welcome to Job with Julie. Great to be here. It is wonderful. It's been pizza, bowling, smell of the stinky shoes. I don't know any smoke in here, though. What's the deal? It's got to be smoking here. Smoke-free bowling. Oh, it's fine. You know what right now. So we want to start out by just thanking the general manager of Brunswick's own Mark for letting us crash this party here. |
| 1:34.5 | Well, you know, our ministry, when we started out, we were initially saying we want to talk to women. |
| 1:40.1 | But we found that almost 50% of the correspondence we get through our website is from men. |
| 1:42.4 | And we've got a lot of guys listening to Job with Julie. Yeah, because what do you specialize in again? I think sex. We do. So, and guys tune into that. Is this show about sex? This is tremendous. See? Are you kidding? Bolling. Pizza, sex. Yeah. Well, we are glad that you're willing to tackle this topic with us because some of the correspondents we get from men are really heartfelt and I think |
| 2:04.3 | they're listening in saying boy women talking about sex I want to know what they're saying |
| 2:08.3 | and a lot of them feel like if I could only get my wife to read what Julie and Linda are writing |
| 2:15.1 | to do passion pursuit we get emails from men that are like, |
| 2:19.1 | can I just send this anonymously to my wife or can I get her hooked into your ministry? |
| 2:23.2 | That's a whole new revenue stream. You would think so. That's what I do, anonymous notes to my wife. |
| 2:28.0 | I mean, she doesn't know. Yeah, but some of them really are heartfelt and I want you to listen to a few that really express some of this. |
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