If this is the crew you're going out with and they're going to have that attitude, that's, honestly, it's like all you need to know.

And maybe you're like, oh, but I love them. They're my family. Okay, great. Don't go into environments with that crew of people where alcohol is going to be involved.

I've told you guys this a lot over the years, but you've got to

set yourself up as much as possible for success. Make it as easy as possible for you to keep the

promise you made to yourself. The quickest easiest thing to do would be stop going into environments

where alcohol is served. Right? Like I'm not saying that you have to do would be stop going into environments where alcohol is served. Right? Like, I'm not saying

that you have to do that because that eliminates dinner or like brunch or some really fun things

that maybe you want to do. But if you wanted to get super hardcore, you'd be like, hey, guys, let's meet

for Ultimate Frisbee, or let's go on a hike, or go into experiences where it's not likely the alcohol will be there.

Hey guys, it's Rach. Welcome to the show. I'm so glad that you're here with us today. And I have a

favor, which sounds kind of harsh if we just met, but I'm assuming that

most of you have been a part of this community for a hot minute. And so I got to ask,

are you subscribed to the podcast? Subscribing to the podcast you listen to regularly is one of the

best things that you can do for hosts like me. It helps to support the show and the staff

that works on it. It ensures that you never miss an episode when we drop a new one. And here's

a cool thing about subscribing. If you do it and then you hate this show, just unsubscribe. It's

one click away. In the meantime, if you're listening, we would so appreciate it

if you would just tap that button and make it official.

Hi, guys, it's Rach. Welcome to another episode of the show and a new edition in our Ask

Rache series. So if you have never listened to one of these episodes before, number one,

they are our most popular, which is really cool. Number two, it's just me giving you advice. And I say just me because

I like to remind the audience that I am just a random chick you know from the internet. I am not

...