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you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right. Welcome to episode 762. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset Who Discs. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today I want to talk about what I think is a fundamental requirement to make a relationship work. And it's derivative of all the work I do on optimism and the language of optimism. That's the thing I'm passionate about,

is the thing I do all my keynotes on.

It's the work I'm so vocal about,

the way that optimism literally can create outcomes

and better health and more wealth and more happiness

and really the core pillars of life.

But in the context of relationships, relationships that work,

that are long-lasting, that are healthy, that are rewarding, that fill your cup, the foundation

of them is optimistic language and optimistic communication. I'll explain what this means,

but this is call it the law that underpins a healthy relationship. Optimism.

In simple terms, optimism has to be the operating system of your relationship because it

shapes how you interpret stress, conflict, uncertainty through language. The words you use to communicate

decide whether a moment of conflict feels temporary and

workable or it feels permanent and like you're doomed. When optimism underpins a relationship,

it means that the default assumption you have between you and your partner is that difficulty, conflict, uncertainty is

navigable. Emotions are temporary. Patterns are not permanent. It is a shared belief. Optimism is a

shared belief that having a moment of disconnect does not define the relationship. That effort still matters. Optimism then,

when that's the case, becomes the lens through which everything is interpreted. That is conflict,

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