Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on

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you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right. Welcome to episode 696. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset, Who Dis, as always, thank you so much for listening.

Thank you for supporting me. And today, the title is, The Breakup Was Necessary. And this is a topic I've talked about before, breakups looking back. But it's one I want to revisit, specifically to offer

you some peace, some calm, some affirmation in the face of moving on,

in the face of a breakup. Maybe a breakup you didn't want to happen, a breakup that you resisted,

but eventually you said, I deserve better. This is necessary. But even knowing that, even saying

that, it doesn't make it easy. You still

carry that weight. So I want to offer a piece of clarity here that I think once you hear it,

you'll agree so wholeheartedly that you'll feel lighter in the face of the breakup. You'll say,

yes. You know what? Absolutely. It was necessary. It wasn't easy. It was was necessary why would I want to be in

that type of relationship so here's the piece of clarity yes the breakup was

necessary because you stopped feeling safe telling the truth you stopped

feeling safe telling the truth it's a a specific thing here, but it's

something that I think, unfortunately, so many of us can relate to in that love, connection with

another person, it should feel like absolute safety, no strategy required. In the context of

truth, honesty, in a relationship, you simply cannot build a future

with someone who punishes you for being honest, for telling your truth. The breakup was necessary

because you stopped feeling safe telling the truth. And this matters a lot. It really does to me.

Like, if I were to, if you were to say to say, what's the point of a relationship? I think the whole point, dare I say like the entire

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