Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on

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you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right. Welcome to episode 695.

Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset, Whois. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, I want to talk about the opposite of settling. This is the title of my new book, and I'll talk about that in a couple of minutes because I'm very excited for it. But I want to do this episode to put some language behind what does the opposite of settling look like in life like we could all agree that we don't want to settle yes great of course

we don't want to settle we don't want to look back on life and realize that we did settle okay good

definitely a strong mindset a powerful mindset to have. But what does

that actually look like? What does the opposite of settling look like? Well, simply put,

the opposite of settling means you stop waiting for anyone to, quote, save you in life. You don't

give weight to people who bring drama into your life or doubt or distraction. You ask, quote, save you in life. You don't give weight to people who bring drama into your life or doubt

or distraction. You ask questions like, does this person bring me peace? Do they make me feel more alive?

Can I be my weirdest and realist self around them? And if the answer is no, you don't argue with it.

You don't stick around and try to turn

a lesson into a soulmate. You move. You trust that what you're building with your life will attract

someone who's built themselves to. Embracing a mindset that says you're committed to the opposite

of settling. It doesn't mean you're perfect. It doesn't

mean you never get lonely. It means you're brave enough to admit that being alone is far better

than abandoning yourself for a half life or half love or half commitment. It means you stay patient while you build your dream life and you evolve and you enjoy your

own company.

It means that you believe that real love, the kind that feels like stability and possibility

all in one, you believe that it's worth the risk, it's worth the weight, and it's worth the work it takes

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