Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on

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you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right. Welcome to episode 697. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindset Who Dis, as always. Thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, the question at hand is, how do you make someone become obsessed with you? How do you make someone obsessed with you? Now, obviously, if you listen to the podcast, I don't do like social tips and tricks or stuff like that. I'm not a big rule guy. I'm not a big say this and wait this long kind of guy really not into rules or like

the gaming of relationships or business or anything. I'm all about showing up, knowing yourself and

showing up as your realist self, letting it speak for you,

filtering out the wrong people, drawing in the right people. So the question, frankly, isn't

one I really care about. But I saw on a podcast the other day, it was like one of those popular

cultural, you know, kind of gossip podcast. Someone had a listener portion and a listener wrote in the question, how do I make him obsessed

with me?

And, you know, obviously outside of the ridiculousness of that question, I thought it was

interesting in a sense.

Like not how to get someone to be obsessed with you, but how do you make someone feel

attracted to you, safe with you, intrigued by you, wanting to get to know more of you? I don't

think there's any harm in wanting that to be the case in life. Like, why wouldn't you? Like, why

wouldn't you want someone to want you to want more of you? Of course. I don't live in la-la land. I live in reality. And yeah, you want people to like you.

You want people to like the real you, not some fake, manipulative gaming version of you. But yeah,

you want them to like you. So I thought about this for a minute, about how I'd answer the question. How do you get

people to like you to be obsessed with you, quote, if we want to use the jargon here? But I think

it's pretty simple. Not that I'm some expert on people liking me. I don't think I'm for everyone.

But, you know, I've learned a thing or two about the simplicity of this idea of creating a space

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