Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on

Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping

you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and

fulfilling life. Let's go.

Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling New Mindset Who Dis. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, I'm going to throw out a headline and then I'm going to back it up with some psychology, a bit of science, a bit of research. The headline is delusional confidence is the key to finding your soulmate. And that's not really clickbait. I genuinely mean it in that having delusional confidence is the key to finding your soulmate. And that's not really clickbait.

I genuinely mean it in that having delusional confidence in yourself is the key in dating.

It's the key to finding the right person for you.

Call it your soulmate, sure. But this idea that being delusional confident in yourself is the key to dating, it's backed by research

in a sense. And I'll explain. But first, let's define what it means to have delusional confidence,

right? Because this word delusional, something I write about on Instagram a lot, but it means

different things to different people. You know, for one, I always say that to be delusional

is simply to walk through life like good

things are on their way to you.

I think that's delusional in a world where everyone's cynical and pessimistic and negative

and pragmatic and realist to walk through life like good things are coming to you.

That's a bit delusional, right?

In the context of dating, though, I would append that definition

to say, you date like good people are on their way to you. You're attracting them, the right

people. You're attracting the right people because you know what you bring to the table and you act like

it. It's that simple. You walk into every date with clarity and ease and zero desperation because of

that fact. You are attracting good people into your life. And you walk through life that way with ease

as a result because you know what you bring to the table. You know it's enough. And the result is no

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