Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

Tina Faye once made a joke about Matt Damon and Ben Affleck being like Jay Cruz sweaters.

They look great in the store, but then you bring one home and realize you just bought an orange sweater.

But here's the thing, I met, I met, I met, I met, I met, I met Matt Damon once in person, and he is not an orange sweater.

He actually holds up. And what I mean by holding up is that you are who you portrayed to be.

So about, I don't know, 15 years ago,

I was running this restaurant bar supper club.

It was just kind of like a small secretive high-end

super scenic restaurant bar in Hollywood and it was a family business that I owned with my family and then it turned into like a like a hot spot after I brought in a promoter and all of that.

And I'm sure you've either read that in my book or I'm sure I've written about it or talked about it on a podcast

But anyway it one of those nights when it was really scenic and it was only scenic for about three months right I'm not

trying to say it was like the hottest thing it was only for about three or four

months it was extremely scenic like every night there was you know

Leonardo DiCaprio and and and and and basically every celebrity you could

imagine within the span of about three to five months came in Hollywood if something's

hot it's like on fire everyone

wants it and then then it's gone right and so we had our eight tickets of

fame there and one night Matt Damon rolls in and he we gave him the I asked him if you wanted to sit in the

VIP trailer we had this airstream in the back so he just kind of hung out there

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