Welcome to UnFuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism, and coaching to rewire your brain

and get what you want in life.

And now here's your host.

Harvard Law School grad, Feminist Rockstar, and Master Coach,

Kara Loyenthyle.

Hello my chickens, how are you guys? I'm sorry you all. Every time I say you guys I get

angry emails. How are you all chickens of all

Orientations presentations all you chickens I am excellent I have one month left of work before I take off for the holidays and a real vacation and I am committed to getting so much done and so much out of the next four weeks because I think a lot of us get to Thanksgiving and then we just like go on autopilot.

But the year is not over, okay?

No matter what your goals are.

So, speaking of goals, I pick the title of this podcast on purpose, the business of

dating, it's kind of a play on it, because I see the exact same thought patterns,

holding my clients back in dating, and in their businesses if they're

entrepreneurs, but even if they're not just in their work lives.

In entrepreneurs especially, it could be coaching or being a physical trainer or an interior designer or anything else

where you're essentially selling a service that has a lot to do with you, right, as opposed to like

a bag of soccer balls or something.

Although I'm sure that entrepreneurs who sell soccer balls also have these problems.

And again, these thought patterns come up in women who work in companies,

you know, in professional non-entrepreneurial roles too. So even if you're not

dating or don't have a business I do recommend you listen to the podcast you're going to

want to hear it because what it's really about is rejection.

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