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🗓️ 21 December 2023
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Feel like you're constantly hitting a ceiling? When good things happen in your life, do you go do something stupid for no reason? You're not alone as this is very common but solvable (kinda). I want to share with you 3 ways I've been working on this and while I don't think I'll ever truly solve it, they have helped a lot and hopefully they help you too.
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(0:46) Keep Fucking Yourself Over?
(2:26) Thermostat Analogy
(4:16) Fear of Success or Loss
(5:20) How to Work On This
(6:44) Last Night’s Masterclass
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0:00.0 | If you sleep in anything less than 67, I think you're a psychopath, but that's a side point. |
0:05.8 | So a thermostat, what happens, right? When we're in Ohio, it's freezing cold, when the air |
0:09.7 | dips below like 60 or whatever the thermostat is set at, he kicks on. And that's the same thing |
0:15.4 | with your subconscious a lot of times because we want to, you know, it's like a threshold, |
0:19.3 | a threshold for how much success, happiness, love, wealth, we believe that we actually deserve. What up, everyone, |
0:27.0 | Jordan here. If you have ever found yourself in a position where things start to go right in your |
0:31.6 | life, you have a little bit of success, you meet the right person, you make some money, |
0:36.0 | you feel like you're in almost kind of a |
0:37.8 | momentum phase, and then you just totally fuck yourself, right? You just derail yourself. This |
0:43.2 | episode is going to be for you because that's been the theme in my life a lot, even though like |
0:46.5 | I've reached levels of height and success that I've always wanted to, I keep kind of kicking |
0:51.2 | my own feet out of under me. And the idea here is something we've all heard of, |
0:55.1 | right? Self-sabotage, or also known as upper limit theory, which is basically a central barrier |
0:59.9 | that prevents people from ultimately achieving their full potential, right? This can manifest in ways |
1:04.9 | like, you know, comparison, procrastination, even drugs, alcohol, which is something I'm dealing |
1:10.5 | with right now that I'll talk about. |
1:11.7 | But it's this idea that the belief that I've had for a long time that I'm still trying to |
1:15.4 | break is like, hey, I got to get a few Cs and D's to eventually get A's, right? You almost have to |
1:20.7 | feel like your backs against the wall and like you're failing in order to create that momentum |
1:24.4 | to push forward. But the problem is with upper limit theory is if you envision like two lines that run parallel |
1:31.4 | to each other and then this is you in between those lines where at the bottom line, |
1:35.0 | that's like, you know, where everything is fucked, anxiety, everything's a wreck at the top line |
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