480: Are People Feeling Your Pressure…or Your Presence?

Your Virtual Upline Podcast

Bob Heilig

Careers, Business, Education, Self-improvement

4.9 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Are you feeling the pressure to constantly sprint in your business, posting nonstop and messaging everyone with a pulse? Do you ever worry you're falling behind because you're not keeping up with the frantic pace?

In this episode, I share a powerful story about a client who felt exactly that. She was shamed for "going slow," but was actually making one of the most important shifts of her entire business journey.

You’ll discover why activity without alignment is just noise and how moving from a fear-led to a LOVE LED™ approach can lead to more fulfilling, sustainable growth.

I’m going to show you how to stop proving your worth and start building a business on a foundation of presence and trust, which is what you truly need to create a business that is not only successful but also fun, fulfilling, and impactful.

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Listen to Learn:

7:15 - Why invisible wins matter more and true growth happens not just in sales or rank

10:37 - The key reasons that activity without alignment is just noise, and how a constant push actually destroys trust and pushes people away

11:47 - How to avoid burnout and finally and find a fulfilling way to work hard without the constant grind

12:45 - Separating the concept of hard work from the feeling of struggle, and what the it looks like when your effort can be both fun and fulfilling

15:21 - Why your pace is perfect and what you've been shaming yourself for as "slow" is actually a sign that you're finally building a foundation of trust

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0:00.0	Hey, Bob here. Welcome to the Your Virtual Upline podcast.
0:10.5	Because the fear-led model, the fear-led system, it only promotes us to see the visible wins.
0:18.6	Did we make the sale? Did we hit the rank? How many followers do you
0:22.6	have? How many views? How many ways? It's only the visible wins. And the problem is, is that for most
0:28.6	people, the visible wins are few and far in between. So have you ever been in a season
0:35.4	where everyone around you seems like they are sprinting, posting
0:41.3	constantly, messaging anybody with a pulse, filling their days with activity after activity,
0:48.3	and you're just sitting here thinking, am I falling behind? Maybe there's a company promotion, some kind of a new
0:57.2	product, a big push around a new activity challenge, right? And everybody in the whole company
1:02.8	is just buzzing with this urgency. Your upline is hammering you, sending you daily reminders.
1:10.0	You got to be posting more. You got to be posting more.
1:11.3	You got to be doing more.
1:13.3	But deep down inside, you feel that old tug.
1:17.2	The one that says to you, it's always there.
1:21.8	If I'm not moving faster, I'm going to miss my chance.
1:26.3	That fear of never doing enough.
1:29.3	But here's the difference.
1:31.5	For the first time, at the same time, deep down inside of you, you also know that the things I'm being told to do feel off.
1:48.2	I want to tell you a story today about a client of ours,
1:55.0	a new student in our love led growth program who was in that exact same place. And I also want to share with you this powerful shift that we helped her make, how we helped her realize what she thought was one of her biggest
2:03.2	weaknesses and problems was actually one of the most important wins of her entire business
2:09.9	journey. So here's what happened. We do this inside of Love Led Growth. I do this weekly
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