481: This is What It Sounds Like to Step Into LOVE-LED™ Leadership
Your Virtual Upline Podcast
Bob Heilig
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 22 August 2025
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
Can you relate to the constant pressure to perform? Do you ever find yourself carrying the quiet fear that you're slipping behind, or that a simple "no" from a client is proof you're not cut out for this? In this powerful, unscripted coaching session, I sit down with Amy, a health coach who, from the outside, has it all together, but on the inside is battling these exact feelings.
You'll hear the raw, emotional moment she reconnects with the purpose that first inspired her to become a coach. We'll unpack the "red light stories" that try to derail us and the old patterns that make us walk away from opportunities. But most importantly, you'll witness what it looks like to lead from a place of love and authentic purpose instead of letting fear lead you.
Amy's story is a perfect demonstration that you don't have to keep leading from fear. There is a different, more fulfilling, LOVE LED™ way. Press play and find out what it sounds like.
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Listen to Learn:
6:01 - Why Amy's "red light story" was a classic sign of a fear-led mindset
10:07 - How she turned a prospect's objection into an opportunity by validating her feelings and asking open-ended questions
18:05 - The way to move past the constant pressure of performance, as Amy did when she realized her old methods buried her true calling
22:23 - What she is doing now to build a business that won't fail under pressure by choosing a new LOVE LED™ approach
27:57 - A key lesson Amy learned when she realized she can't pour her energy into people who aren't committed
29:30 - The analogy I gave Amy when thinking of creating a strong foundation for future growth that's aligned with her purpose
33:53 - A reminder that in order to redefine success, you must focus on presence, not rank
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Bob here and welcome to the Your Virtual Upline podcast. |
| 0:12.3 | The fear-led model has taught us that once they're not interested in buying the products that we move on, |
| 0:19.1 | because it is very much just a numbers game. Whether we |
| 0:22.1 | want to admit it or not, that's what we've been conditioned to treat it as. We lose the |
| 0:27.3 | opportunity to really impact someone. Today I want to share with you an unfiltered, real, and raw coaching conversation that happened |
| 0:41.9 | inside our love-led growth program with one of our students, Amy. |
| 0:45.2 | Started out as a simple interaction, coaching her on something that we see quite a bit. |
| 0:51.0 | And then 40 minutes later, it ended up being one of, if not the most powerful coaching interactions that I've ever had in my career. |
| 1:01.0 | And so it was so impactful to anybody that was on that session, so moving, so gripping, because it spoke to so many of the issues that we struggle with, |
| 1:12.7 | both internally and externally. I just knew this was something I had to share with all of you. |
| 1:17.4 | And so to her credit, Amy was like, absolutely, if it can help someone else, then let's do it. |
| 1:23.9 | And so you're going to hear her story. She's been a health coach for over three years. |
| 1:29.4 | And from the outside, you know, looks like she's doing well, you know, has built a nice business. |
| 1:35.4 | But on the inside, she's been carrying something that a lot of leaders can relate to. |
| 1:41.5 | The constant pressure to perform. The quiet fear that you're slipping |
| 1:47.6 | behind. And the moments when a no or an objection feels like a personal confirmation |
| 1:57.0 | that maybe you're just not cut out for this. And so in this conversation, you're going to hear what happens when fear shows up in real time. |
| 2:08.6 | But more importantly, what it looks like to lead through it instead of it letting lead you. |
| 2:15.6 | And so she's going to share a recent experience where she |
| 2:20.2 | almost walked away from a prospect the second she sensed that they weren't interested in |
| 2:26.5 | buying. And then you're going to hear the two of us unpack the red light stories that pop up in moments like that and the old patterns that can |
| 2:37.4 | derail you without you even realizing it and you're going to also hear her experience and you're |
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