Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is

Case Kenny at Case.canny on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I

create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping you be the person you're meant to be

leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go.

All right welcome to episode 422. Hello my friend welcome to a fresh new episode

of new mindset who this as always thank you so much for listening thank you for

supporting me and today I want to talk about a topic that keeps coming up in

conversations I have with people around dating and relationships and it's a

topic or rather a pitfall that so many of us fall into and that is dating in

potential only dating and potential dating for the potential of what could be

instead of the reality of what is and now obviously the whole point of dating

in any relationship in the beginning of course is potential of course you have

to see potential you have to explore potential and then you have to confirm

it's there that's kind of how anything in life works I suppose but I have

found time and time again and I bet you'd agree too that if we only look for

potential if we stay glued to potential if we only fall for potential well then

we totally disregard reality that's the reality of a relationship today of a

person today the reality of what you deserve today and if we do that well then

we run the risk of what I see is so common we ignore red flags we slowly talk

ourselves out of what we actually want and what we actually deserve we find

ways to rationalize more time and more hope that something will change or

that something will become bigger or better and then voila you open your eyes

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