Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

On today's episode, Four Truths about falling in love for the second time.

Number one, and by the way I am doing this episode because I think a lot of people who fall in love for the second time

may feel discouraged or may be afraid, may feel that they're scared the plane's going to fall or the ground's going to drop.

They're scared to have an experience that was like before.

They're scared they're going to get cut at the knees.

So my goal with this episode is to let you know that the second time is going to be a better time and here's why. Number one, you're more aware of

self and what you want and don't want. You have more tools and you realize what in what it actually takes to build a healthy sustainable relationship.

So simply put, you bring more to the table.

So the second time around, and I'm using second time as in

if something didn't work out the next time, right?

So the second time can technically be the fourth time.

So I'm not saying literally the second time you fall in love,

because the second time you fall in love, you know, you could be 21,

I don't know I'm just

talking about the next time as the second time if that makes sense John that does

not make sense well that's what I mean So of course as you have new love experiences you learn hopefully because

you've revisited the black box and you've taken some ownership and you reflect once emotions have

settled and you have clearer lenses and you're like oh this is what I doing, or this is my contribution to why the plane went down.

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