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Do You F*cking Mind?

375. Hyper-independence - your coping mechanism / trauma response. How to turn it into healthy independence instead

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9914 Ratings

🗓️ 10 November 2024

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

This episode I dive into what hyper-independence is, what it looks like, where it stems from and the difference between this and healthy independence and what you can do to start to turn it around. 

Brain fact : Motion sickness 


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0:00.0

Hello, my beautiful, and welcome to the episode of today. So this episode is all about

0:20.0

hyper independence. Is it a coping mechanism?

0:24.0

Is it a trauma response? We're going to go deep into what hyper independence looks like.

0:29.5

We're going to be talking about my personal experiences when I had my season, let's call it,

0:35.2

of hyper independence. I'm going to talk about how it can be really

0:37.7

extreme for some people, how it can just happen for a period of time for others, how it compares

0:42.4

to normal, healthy levels of independence and what you can do to kind of like swing that needle

0:48.2

from hyper independence into this healthy level of independence, because after listening to

0:52.8

this episode, you're going to realize that it's quite taxing on your life and it's not really good for you

0:58.7

to be hyper independent. I don't think it's good in general to be hyper anything. It's all about

1:03.6

kind of finding that healthy level in the middle. But, but we are doing a brain fact to get

1:10.5

started.

1:11.0

I'm just going to sip on my fucking cappuccino.

1:13.0

Actually, just a little fun fact.

1:15.3

I don't know why, but when I was in Europe, I switched to piccolos because no shade on

1:20.0

Europe.

1:20.3

I just don't like coffee with too much milk in Europe.

1:23.3

I just feel like the, what do you call it?

1:25.5

The proportions are just not what I, whatever.

1:28.8

Anyway, I don't like cappuccinoes in Europe.

1:30.6

Love them in Australia.

1:31.7

Love piccolos in Europe.

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